Isabella Frappier

About me

I believe every human deserves to feel at home in their body.

For over a decade, I’ve supported thousands of people to reclaim their bodies, awaken their erotic selves, and live lives that feel turned-on, radiant, and free.
I'm a Pleasure Mentor, Sex Educator, and Erotic Anarchist. I’m also a second-generation psychic medium, semi-retired birth doula, women’s health writer, and podcast host.

But more than my titles, I’m someone who has walked through disconnection, shame, and performance-based sexuality, and made it to the other side.

My work weaves body literacy, nervous system wisdom, sexual sovereignty, emotional intimacy, and a little wildness, guiding you to remember your magic and awaken the wisdom that your body already knows.

Pleasure is your birthright. It’s time to reclaim it.

Welcome to the Sanctuary

Whether you’re taking your first step or seeking a deeper dive, I’m honoured to walk beside you on this path of reclamation.

Credentials & Experience

My practice is grounded in both formal training and lived wisdom.

I’ve studied under world-renowned teachers including Esther Perel, Jaiya, Dr. Emily Nagoski, and Kimberly Ann Johnson, and trained through institutions such as The Artemis School and the Southern School of Natural Therapies.

My work has been featured by Netflix, Goop, VICE, TEDx, and more, and I continue to share this message across podcasts, publications, and live events worldwide.

Workshops

My online courses and live workshops are crafted to feel both accessible and deeply transformational.

Together, we’ll explore tools like embodiment practices, nervous system care, and pleasure rituals that help you reconnect with your body, awaken your desires, and step into your life with more confidence, intimacy, and joy.

These experiences help you reclaim your body, discover your erotic power, and build confidence that radiates into every area of your life.

Why I Do This Work

I believe pleasure is activism. A radical reclamation in a world that profits from our disconnection.

When we are rooted in our bodies and joy, we become magnetic, unshakable, and free.

Over the past decade, I’ve supported thousands to release shame, embody sovereignty, and create lives rich in intimacy, confidence, and unapologetic self-love.

Private Mentorship

My private mentorship offers a deeply personalised journey. A space to be seen, held, and guided as you reconnect to your body and desires.

Together, we’ll untangle shame, nurture healing, and awaken your erotic power so you can come home to yourself in the most unapologetic way. This work is available for individuals, couples, or constellations of love.

The Sanctuary Experience

Eli J, They/them.

“I had such a positive experience in the community. I’ve been learning how to continue breaking down the harmful narratives I internalized as a young person and how to live more authentically in tune with the special energy I bring to the world.

Isabella has such beautiful energy and passion that welcomes the workshop participants to open themselves to honesty, healing, and the beauty of the erotic in their own lives.

The ritual suggestions, journal prompts, thoughtful seminars, and community of accountability  feels true, good, and erotic to me.”

Wondering if this is for you?

Curious about my offerings, or wondering if this path is right for you? I’ve gathered all the questions in one place to make it easy.